Wednesday, May 30, 2007

The strong power of Needs

A GOOD RELATIONSHIP IS A MUTUAL FILLING OF EACH OTHER'S NEEDS.The force of NEEDS affects our opinion, attitude and viewpoint.

N>Natural Needs=air to breath, water to drink, ground to stand on, etc.
E>Emotional Needs=Food, warmth,security, understanding, etc.
E>Especial Needs=Sexual fulfillment,procreation,sense of self-esteem, etc.
D>Daily (Changing Needs)=Activity,money, vocation, work, vacation, etc.

Strong need when filled = strong relationship (+++)
Weak need when filled = Mild relationship (+)
Strong need when unfilled = Poor relationship (---)
Weak need when unfilled = Mild relationship (-) still tolerable.
Unfilled NEEDS result to parting of ways which lead to stress, anger, resentment (depending upon the strength of the unfilled need).
Loving and lasting relationships are generally those in which THE PARTIES FEED EACH OTHER'S EGO.

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